Having a baby out of wedlock is truly a big mistake as no girl in her right state of mind would wish for that.But,is it the biggest mistake ever?
Why can't we free the girl in question from her past mistake and allow her move on with her life and still encourage her to attain the great height she has in mind?
Do we know that the unwanted pregnancy wouldn't have being possible if not for a second party who is the male gender,yet nobody talks about him but blames the girl alone? Is it not stupidity that a man or boy who has impregnated a girl out of wedlock,still take part in pointing fingers at,looking down on or criticizing other girls who fall victims?
Is it because the girl who has a child out of wedlock thought it wise to save the life of the child rather than terminating it,that makes other girls to see her as irresponsible? Do we know the number of murders committed through abortion by those girls who condemn her,just to hide their sins and paint themselves as "responsible" before the public?
Do we know that some girls abort their pregnancies because of the fear of secession or isolation by the people of the world?
The fact is,we all have our own short-comings some of which are worse than having a child out of wedlock yet we still live,why can't we then let go these girls and still accord them commensurate respect and love as others?
And by doing so, we have again as well mature and civilized people given them a sense of belonging for the success and progress of us all at home and in diaspora.I also caution those whom may have fallen victim to be cautious in future,and as well encourage them to rise up from their fall and struggle to scale through the hurdles of life towards a brighter future.Surely,if we all struggle together with faith,courage,consistency and fear of God,we will all soar high and get to the apex of our dreams. May God bless us all.
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